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11月13日 11.11 Bits and Bots on Singles' Day
The following talk will help you better understand Singles' Day.
 A：Do you know what holiday falls on November 11th？
B：I've heard that a lot of young people call this day "Singles' Day"！But how did it come from?
A：It is said that it originated from the early 1990s when college students first put forward the idea of choosing the day of November 11（1111）as a day for single people. It became popular and turned into a cultural event on campus and even society.
B：Then, how do they celebrate Singles’ Day?
A：There are tons of ways to celebrate it！At some universities, student organizations have singles parties, to give single guys and girls an opportunity to meet and stop being single; Some people go out singing and drinking, let off steam about being single; And some people go on blind dates looking for suitable partners; Some people get together with other single friends to just have a good time. Singles' Day has also become a holiday even people who aren't single, on this day, lots of people with partners pretend they are single again, together tasting their old single life.
A：It is, in China, the number of single people has increased. In the past, being "single" had a connotation of being lonely, lonesome and unloved, but now it is no longer the substitute name for sadness, it means more independence, more freedom and unrestrained way of life.
B：So what you're saying is, previously they were "passively" single, and now they're "actively" single?
A：Some people are that way, but definitely not all of them. There are still lots of people these days who are sad about being single, and want to escape it somehow, but more and more young people think that marriage isn't something one has to do, they aren't looking for partners, and they don't want to get married. They consider themselves very young at heart, and still have a lot of other things to do.
B：It looks like the economy has developed, society is changing, and people's values are also changing!
A：In the past many older young people just married for the sake of marriage. But nowadays young people's ideas about marriage and values have changed. They value intellectual exchange more, and require a common language of communication.
B：Perhaps this trend of singlehood will have a definite negative impact on society! If the number of single people increases, the existence of society and humanity may both be threatened. In some western countries, this trend has already become apparent.
A：Yep！So, some experts say, this kind of lifestyle deserves respect, but shouldn't be advocated!
今年的单身节大家都是怎么过的啊？我不知道，但是今年的我不像去年和寝室的朋友去吃一顿（谁叫某些人已经离队了啊！！）。而是在寝室里看看书，上上电脑而已。单身节还是进了大学才知道的，不过时代不同了，单身的人越来越多，所以大家反而把它当作一个节日来庆祝了。lol.反正不管大家今后的路怎么走，都希望我的朋友们开开心心每一天！！
11月8日 如果来世可以选择,我还是想做人 最近很忙，但每次都忍不住要去看校内，想要知道朋友们最近的情况，想要了解他们的世界，想要看大家的分享......
看后发觉大家的生活都很精彩,不由地又要感叹一下自己为什么总是这么不能豁然,不能放下点呢?为什么也活得开心点呢?今天看到朋友的日志里写到:很多人都说来世可以选择的话不想再做人了,做人太累了.但是如果可以选择我会选择再做人.
我也时常觉得做人好累,有太多想要的得不到,有太多的矛盾,有太多的残酷的现实.....但也或许正是有了这些才使得人的生活比动物来得丰富,来得多彩.
做人的话,可以通过自己的努力改变一些东西,可以脱贫致富,可以圆家族梦想.....这样的喜悦是动物们感受不了的.作为人可以培养自己的下一代,可以体会与自己孩子在一起的快乐,可以用语言了解孩子的心灵;作为人可以和自己喜欢的人用语言交流,可以给他支持与力量.,也可以从对方那里得到关爱.....
唯有人才是有理想的动物,可以为自己心中的梦想坚持,这样的过程虽然很累,但是会很幸福!!做人真的很精彩!!(而且做人可以穿漂亮的衣服,可以弄翘睫毛,涂指甲油,可以带好看的挂件...多开心!!)
我想做人的还有一个原因就是人可以用语言和很多人交流,可以了解到很多和自己很不同的人的经历和想法!!!我很喜欢聆听别人的话,很喜欢,很喜欢......(所以我一直就喜欢知道很多的人,我喜欢他能不厌其烦地告诉我很多,o(∩_∩)o...哈哈,这就是我找BF的标准!!!)
现在的我虽然每天还是有点不开心,但生活正在一点点地充实起来,不再是以前那个不懂生活的我了,我会有空去下日语角,和他们说说话,和同学们一起玩玩游戏,聊聊天,有好的讲座即使没人陪我,我也会自己一个人去听.现在的我不会觉得一个人是可怜的,是被抛弃的,反而我觉得能做自己喜欢的事,即使是一个人去做也是很快乐的.在生活中总是有许多的事情是需要一个人完成的,不能没有陪同的人就不去做了,那样就不是在做自己了!!!
现在的我在努力地学习日语(虽然水平很差,但我还是很努力的啊!!)
现在的我为自己的意志力感到气愤,太没毅力了.每天想着要看英语,但总是以吃不消了被我一推再推,明明自己知道自己想要干什么却总是打不起劲来!!苦恼啊!很小的时候,我就知道我不是一个很聪明的人,所以我应该很努力才对呀,可是现在的我太没用了....555
现在的我很容易分心,总是会幻想,不切实际的幻想,怎么办才好啊!!!
现在的我还想买很多名牌的时尚的衣服,裤子,鞋子,裙子......还想要很多的护肤品,想要很多的香水,想要很多的戴在手上的饰件,想要睫毛膏,想要指甲油.....想要去很多国家旅游......啊,完了,我肯定得什么痴想症了.我知道马上我就要毕业了,以后的生活就应该是自己养活自己了,如果有出息的话就应该给爸爸他们好的生活,我不能再给爸爸太多的要求了,我其实一直都知道,就是不知道怎么会一下子要求变得这么多了.我有时会想自己如果像妹妹一样出生在一个很有钱的家里就好了,那样就能天天打扮得漂漂亮亮的,这样的想法我也是有的,但是事实已经是这样了,我不能去抱怨,应该去想办法改变,至于现在那些很嚣张的人,我也根本不羡慕他们,他们用的都是父母的钱,我们要比的话看将来那才是公平的啊!!
现在的我只想有很多很多的朋友,能懂很多很多的东西.想要学好英语和日语,想要参加很多很多的活动,想要健健康康开开心心每一天.想要能去唱唱歌,想要学会跳舞.想要皮肤保养好.至于某些东西我不会刻意去寻找的,我会一切顺其自然的.因为我总是觉得自己是不受老天眷顾的,无论做什么事都要比别人多一点困难!!所以我认了!! |
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